True Freedom Without Losing Yourself:
The Journey That Changed My Whole Life…

Hi, My name is Inkar.

I can tell you about being a woman leader… or building and running a 7-figure agency in health and wellness.

But none of that matters without family and freedom.

And I’m not saying that from a highlight reel. I’m saying it because I’ve lived the version of life where you’re holding it together on the outside, but privately you’re confused, lost and exhausted. 

Where you’re doing “all the right things,” but still feel behind… still feel unseen… still wonder if you’re the problem.

I went through seasons that cracked me open: had to provide for myself early on, alone in a foreign country, working minimum wage jobs just to survive,   a painful breakup, disrespect that made me question my worth, businesses that didn’t work, and burnout that made even simple days feel heavy.

I honestly doubted that “someone like me” was meant for a good life.

I was tired of surviving. After realizing – no one is coming to save me, I took my life into my own hands. One action at a time.

The first thing I had to rebuild wasn’t my career. It was me.

I had to unlearn the reflex to overgive, overprove, and overperform just to feel safe. I had to stop living in reaction to everyone else’s expectations.

I learned how to build real inner stability… the kind that doesn’t disappear the moment you face a problem or someone is disappointed in you.

It wasn’t easy. Some days it felt like starting over from scratch. But slowly, I built self-respect the same way you build strength: one choice, one rep at a time. 

Purpose. Better standards. Clear boundaries. Less chaos. More peace.

And that inner shift changed everything.

When your body is depleted, your mind gets loud. Your patience gets thin. Your confidence collapses. I learned that the “dream life” isn’t built by force. It’s built on capacity.

So I got serious about my health. Not for a number on a scale. Not to chase perfection. But to feel strong, clear, and grounded in my own skin.

I learned what actually works when you’re busy. What holds up when you’re stressed. How to protect your energy instead of bleeding it out all day. How to train and eat in a way that gives you life back, not another set of rules to follow.

I didn’t find freedom by pushing harder. I found it by getting smarter – through sustainable consistency.

A lot of women build success and quietly lose themselves, sacrifice family or their health in the process. I didn’t want that.

I wanted real love. Real partnership. A home that felt safe. I wanted to build something meaningful without sacrificing the people I care about… or becoming someone I don’t recognize.

I learned how to stop accepting disrespect. How to choose relationships that match my standards. How to communicate without fear. How to be strong without becoming hard. How give everything you have and not lose your self, life and career. How to be loved like I love others.

Now I have what matters most: a family I’m proud of, a relationship built on real support, and a life that feels aligned… not just “impressive”.

I built a good career through entrepreneurship. But business was never the point.

The point was freedom. Options. Stability. The ability to be curious and create without being trapped.

I learned how to systemize what used to scare and overwhelm me. How to make decisions from clarity instead of pressure. How to not give up after countless fails. How to grow without burning out. How to build a life where career supports your values… not the other way around.

And the truth is, it took time. It took many tries. It took realignment. It took learning what no one teaches you when you’re just trying to figure it out.

But it’s possible… and it’s so worth it.